Life and Love

Waiting for life to start resized  In my Coaching business and in my personal life I speak to person after person who is literally sitting on the couch waiting for their life to start. Excuses range from not enough time to not enough cash. Not enough support to not enough ... something and it saddens me because lets face facts ... as the hipsters put it ... YOLO ... YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE.


Why are you waiting on the couch for your life ... love ... career ... or whatever to start? It's a question I ask over and over and although I get mixed responses when I utter it, it's a question I would really liked answered.


The smarty pants among you will jest that you don't even own a couch, but without a doubt you all get what I am laying down on the table.  Why do so many of us think that we have unlimited time? Why do we think that everything will happen tomorrow and why do we spend so much time waiting and hoping? Time is limited and waiting and hoping wont get the job done, pure and simple! 


I have pondered this for ages and ages and while a variety of excuses pop up I think I have the answer sussed. It's LACK OF MOTIVATION! Motivation is what drives us forward and what pushes us to achieve newly set goals. It's what gets many of us up in the morning and what keeps us going when fatigue or obstacles threaten to slow us down.  Without motivation many will spend their lives dreaming of a better tomorrow, a tomorrow that sadly, if changes are not made, will never come. 


Being a Singles Coach / Motivational Coach I speak to person after person waiting for IT to happen. The IT can be any number of desirable things. A successful relationship, a new career venture, a change of persona or even just a fun  and active social life. 


I added a Motivational section to my blog as I feel it's one of the main issues I come across and one of the issues that once dealt with can yield the most amazing results.


I'll still be sharing relationship/dating tips and tricks here but keep your eye out for some Motivational and Self Help articles as well.  :)


cheers to you becoming a motivated machine,



How can I love myself a little moreWe have all heard the saying if you cant love yourself then how will you be able to love anyone else. It took years and years for me to really, really understand it and get my head around it, but it raises one of the most common questions I get asked as a Singles Coach.

How can I love myself a little more?

make your outside match your inside 205x300 f improf 260x382Whilst shopping the other day I saw an advert explaining that for a modest fee and the use of their product I would "feel comfortable in my own skin" and it got me thinking, thinking about myself and about the hordes of people shopping and getting on with their daily stuff around me. Do I feel comfortable in my skin ? Do they ? I ordered a thick shake, chocolate, and sat down to ponder.

shrugBeing single sucks. This seems to be a common theme that we hear over and over, but I find myself asking the question ... is this really true?

As a singles coach I spend a lot of time helping people find their significant other. Helping people who KNOW that they want a partner in crime find said partner, but what of those who are unsure?

sick of being alone 672x372 Are you sick of being alone ? Sick of spending Friday and Saturday nights on the couch with the cat or dog ? Sick of openly mocking happy couples while being envious and sad on the inside ? Well the time has come to make some changes, BIG ONES ! Changes that will make life happier, brighter and in a nut shell bloody brilliant. Changes that will get you out the door and changes that will get you mixing and mingling like Paris Hilton .... clothes are optional.


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